randomactsofcheer
Cheer Parent
- Feb 10, 2015
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Also, I'm sorry if you've ever let your kid take these kinds of pics but:
Billy Bob shouldn't be allowed to be all up on your kid in your presence in open gym or practice pics etc. holding her on his hip, giving her kisses/hugs and taking pics with captions like "Ugh my little fierceling baby is so beautiful."
I see it rather often and I'm surprised parents don't have more boundaries with their kids.
None of my son's coaches are okay to pick up and hug all over my kid and call him a "hot stud."
Coaches need to know their boundaries.
What. The... People let their coaches kiss and hug their kids? Or let their kids kiss and hug their coaches? The only time CP has ever hugged one of her coaches in the last two years was the couple times she did so in a moment of glory when she nailed an elusive skill. That isn't including the "group hugs" her coach would sometimes give when the team did really well.
With the exception of grandma, grandpa, myself, my husband, and her nanny, no adult is ever allowed to be alone with my child. Ever. Outside of the gym, we are personal friends with a couple of coaches. One of the coaches and my DH are close. We have spent holidays together, dogsat for each other, helped each other out on home projects, etc. He didn't coach CP's team, but he did open up the gym a few times for her when it was closed to give her tumbling lessons. DH and I both trust him, but neither of us would ever let CP be in the gym alone with him. Even he (the coach) asked us to make sure someone was staying at the gym with CP if there weren't any other lessons/practices/classes going on. If I dropped CP off at the gym and later found out that she and the coach were the only ones there, I would seriously question the motives of that coach.