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I have concerns about the person running a "game" at NCA. Perhaps he is harmless, but his behavior was brought to my attention a couple of months ago and some of it is very concerning. When I found out about him, I told my CP to not have any communication with him and she said "oh I already know about him. He kept private messaging one of my friends from a different gym and he made her very uncomfortable so she blocked him". I have since heard of a couple of other cheerleaders who he has contacted privately and they were also uncomfortable. Adults should not be contacting minors they don't know privately for any reason. To me, this crosses the line of being just a friendly fan who travels the country to attend cheer competitions. I hope those who participate or those parents who allow their kids to participate do so with caution and don't meet up alone.
 
I have concerns about the person running a "game" at NCA. Perhaps he is harmless, but his behavior was brought to my attention a couple of months ago and some of it is very concerning. When I found out about him, I told my CP to not have any communication with him and she said "oh I already know about him. He kept private messaging one of my friends from a different gym and he made her very uncomfortable so she blocked him". I have since heard of a couple of other cheerleaders who he has contacted privately and they were also uncomfortable. Adults should not be contacting minors they don't know privately for any reason. To me, this crosses the line of being just a friendly fan who travels the country to attend cheer competitions. I hope those who participate or those parents who allow their kids to participate do so with caution and don't meet up alone.

I personally know 3 kids he has DMd on Twitter. Their parents have shut it down-- but this type of stuff just shouldn't be happening. Just because something isn't illegal doesn't make it ok.


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I personally know 3 kids he has DMd on Twitter. Their parents have shut it down-- but this type of stuff just shouldn't be happening. Just because something isn't illegal doesn't make it ok.


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You are right. And I have seen so many kids who travel to these competitions without their parents and with little adult supervision. Easy targets, especially when gifts and/or money is offered to them.
 
I have concerns about the person running a "game" at NCA. Perhaps he is harmless, but his behavior was brought to my attention a couple of months ago and some of it is very concerning. When I found out about him, I told my CP to not have any communication with him and she said "oh I already know about him. He kept private messaging one of my friends from a different gym and he made her very uncomfortable so she blocked him". I have since heard of a couple of other cheerleaders who he has contacted privately and they were also uncomfortable. Adults should not be contacting minors they don't know privately for any reason. To me, this crosses the line of being just a friendly fan who travels the country to attend cheer competitions. I hope those who participate or those parents who allow their kids to participate do so with caution and don't meet up alone.

No adult man should be contacting minors asking them to meet up [emoji35] that is absolutely insane! I'm pretty sure who you are talking about and from what I saw on twitter he is asking them to "come find him"
Parents DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS GO MEET ANY STRANGER ADULT BY THEMSELVES EVER!!


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No adult man should be contacting minors asking them to meet up [emoji35] that is absolutely insane! I'm pretty sure who you are talking about and from what I saw on twitter he is asking them to "come find him"
Parents DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS GO MEET ANY STRANGER ADULT BY THEMSELVES EVER!!


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Yes, that is him. I don't understand why this is even being allowed. Is @ASCheerMan aware of this?

I know this person doesn't feel there is anything wrong with his behavior; according to him and his minions there is absolutely nothing wrong with an adult male attending cheer competitions halfway across the country ALL BY HIMSELF and taking pictures with minor females, and the rest of us are ridiculous for having concerns. He has likened his interest in attending cheer comps his own daughter's are not even competing at to someone buying season tickets for a professional sports team however did not have a response when it was pointed out to him that when you are watching a professional sports team you are watching adults, and certainly not interacting with teenaged female athletes.
 
Yes, that is him. I don't understand why this is even being allowed. Is @ASCheerMan aware of this?

I know this person doesn't feel there is anything wrong with his behavior; according to him and his minions there is absolutely nothing wrong with an adult male attending cheer competitions halfway across the country ALL BY HIMSELF and taking pictures with minor females, and the rest of us are ridiculous for having concerns. He has likened his interest in attending cheer comps his own daughter's are not even competing at to someone buying season tickets for a professional sports team however did not have a response when it was pointed out to him that when you are watching a professional sports team you are watching adults, and certainly not interacting with teenaged female athletes.

OMG! WHAT??!? Who is playing a game? Is he just randomly targeting cheerleaders to meet him in Dallas?
 
No adult man should be contacting minors asking them to meet up [emoji35] that is absolutely insane! I'm pretty sure who you are talking about and from what I saw on twitter he is asking them to "come find him"
Parents DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS GO MEET ANY STRANGER ADULT BY THEMSELVES EVER!!


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I'm also wondering if the coaches of the athletes involved in this game are aware. It will certainly be time consuming and distracting for these girls to partcipate.
 
OMG! WHAT??!? Who is playing a game? Is he just randomly targeting cheerleaders to meet him in Dallas?

Yes. He steps so far over the line, it's not even there anymore. Parents need to be aware of this man and gym owners need to shut him down. He makes shirts with different gym logos and gives them out. He's like the guy in the van asking kids if they want candy, in my opinion.
 
I have concerns about the person running a "game" at NCA. Perhaps he is harmless, but his behavior was brought to my attention a couple of months ago and some of it is very concerning. When I found out about him, I told my CP to not have any communication with him and she said "oh I already know about him. He kept private messaging one of my friends from a different gym and he made her very uncomfortable so she blocked him". I have since heard of a couple of other cheerleaders who he has contacted privately and they were also uncomfortable. Adults should not be contacting minors they don't know privately for any reason. To me, this crosses the line of being just a friendly fan who travels the country to attend cheer competitions. I hope those who participate or those parents who allow their kids to participate do so with caution and don't meet up alone.
just looked through his twitter and found this from a couple weeks ago and it definitely made me uncomfortable

"Seriously am in love with baking. I think I've baked 20 pie's since Thanksgiving. Wish I had more ppl to help me eat it tho :("
 
There are parents and athletes who will fiercely defend him.

They can defend him if they want, that's fine but what the people defending need to realize that it's NOT okay for a grown man to contact little girls(minors) and ask to private message him! Not sure how anyone thinks it's okay for an adult to message little girls over social media that he doesn't know and say can you "private message me"?! For those that think it's okay I hope you aren't teaching your children that it's okay to reply to stranger over social media! Isn't this what we warn children about? [emoji849][emoji15] we tell them don't talk to strangers, don't meet them anywhere and here we have this grown man doing right in front of everyone and the majority of people don't seen bother by it! I plan to contact my gym and let them know what this guy is doing. Smh


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