All-Star Not A Cheer Mom, Cheer Mom Club

[simplymom]

At work, if I perform well during the year, I get a bonus. At cheerleading, If I'm a great coach, parents buy us gifts at the end of the year because they love us.

If your daughter does amazing and gets something she has been struggling to achieve, by ALL means please reward her. Now I am not saying that it is right in every single case. Nor should you yell at them to try to make them do something. But if you need to help me reach my full potential with monetary rewards, then so be it.

A congratulatory reward and a bribe are different.

 

[Hi! It's me!]

A congratulatory reward and a bribe are different.

I agree. But my cp doesn't know when she will be rewarded, more fun for me that way. And I am definitely going to have to ask for forgiveness for last nights practice. My faceprint is on the glass. But they were in the corner and you have to get in a really weird position to see a quarter of the group and oh never mind, mea culpa. Please forgive me.

 

[Mamarazzi]

Maybe my reluctance to bribe my child with money or expensive gifts is, only in part, because I can't. $100 for a full? As I'm already spending that, plus some more, in privates each month, I don't see how my light bill not getting paid equates to Susie landing her full.

 

[Just-a-Mom]

I will not tell everyone my cp is going to make senior 5 when she is working her bhs.
I will not run around telling everyone who should or shoudn't fly or make a team!!

Hmmmm I do bribe my daughter. She got a pillow pet when she landed her double. I wonder what she will do if I take it back!

Can we take off the hot pink part? And just leave it at "I will not tell everyone my cp is going to make ..." Really. No need to EVER tell anyone what team your cp is going to make. Especially since if you're in the NACM club, you should not know or be speculating about what team your cp is going to make.

To me its all about rewarding hard work. Not saying "if you do xyz you will get something" but saying "because you did xyz you get something.
acknowledging success is what competition is all about.
However, sometimes people need a carrot to chase. Setting a goal and working for it is never a bad thing.
For $100 with a few cocktails I might even try a full.

Send me your comp schedule. I'll take up a collection. And I'll be there with the hundred bucks, the cocktail, and the camcorder.

 

[AZCheerMom]

Yeah!! I love this group!!:fro:

 

[AZCheerMom]

Can we take off the hot pink part? And just leave it at "I will not tell everyone my cp is going to make ..." Really. No need to EVER tell anyone what team your cp is going to make. Especially since if you're in the NACM club, you should not know or be speculating about what team your cp is going to make.

Send me your comp schedule. I'll take up a collection. And I'll be there with the hundred bucks, the cocktail, and the camcorder.

I will contribute!! Gotta see this!!

 

[SharkDad]

Its not a bribe if it is offered up after the skill has been accomplished. Its all in the timing. I too have given rewards for getting a skill. It is something to celebrate. Nothing better than picking them up and having them say guess what I did. (note: I said pick up, Not sit through practice)

Megan texted me on Sunday right after she threw her 2 to full and I was at the mall to get her brother some shoes. That was cool

 

[SharkDad]

Fun thread. . .I'd like to invite you all to the cheerparents online board again. You can have discussions with more parent-only involvement. http://cheerparentsonline.com/forum/index.php

If you want I'll add a NACM forum just for you guys. I already added a Single Parent Forum by request.

@mstealtoyou do you think the CPGB would want us to migrate all of the old CPGB board over?

 

[Mamarazzi]

You can have discussions with more parent-only involvement. http://cheerparentsonline.com/forum/index.php

If you want I'll add a NACM forum just for you guys. I already added a Single Parent Forum by request.

YES PLEASE!! :cheering:

 

[shadow]

Can we take off the hot pink part? And just leave it at "I will not tell everyone my cp is going to make ..." Really. No need to EVER tell anyone what team your cp is going to make. Especially since if you're in the NACM club, you should not know or be speculating about what team your cp is going to make.

Send me your comp schedule. I'll take up a collection. And I'll be there with the hundred bucks, the cocktail, and the camcorder.

Don't forget the parametric. Coordination is not my strong suit.

 

[Just-a-Mom]

Fun thread. . .I'd like to invite you all to the cheerparents online board again. You can have discussions with more parent-only involvement. http://cheerparentsonline.com/forum/index.php

If you want I'll add a NACM forum just for you guys. I already added a Single Parent Forum by request.

@mstealtoyou do you think the CPGB would want us to migrate all of the old CPGB board over?

Yes, everyone please go over there too. I joined, but no one was there to talk to. And I think we'd like a NACM forum if everyone will post on it!!!!!

 

[simplymom]

Fun thread. . .I'd like to invite you all to the cheerparents online board again. You can have discussions with more parent-only involvement. http://cheerparentsonline.com/forum/index.php

If you want I'll add a NACM forum just for you guys. I already added a Single Parent Forum by request.

@mstealtoyou do you think the CPGB would want us to migrate all of the old CPGB board over?

Will we have the opportunity to pull out our unedited clever humor? I think some were holding back because we didn't want to get moved to the 18+ section. We don't want to corrupt our youth! :fro:

 

[lifeoftheparty]

Ok I will definitely check it out. Do we use our same sn as here?

 

[Babs]

Will we have the opportunity to pull out our unedited clever humor? I think some were holding back because we didn't want to get moved to the 18+ section. We don't want to corrupt our youth! :fro:

You just answered the question I was thinking of posting ... why leave this board and go to another one? Any other reasons?

 

[AZCheerMom]

Megan texted me on Sunday right after she threw her 2 to full and I was at the mall to get her brother some shoes. That was cool

Yeah for Megan!! So what kind of shoes did you get her??