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My boyfriend just randomly called me and broke up with me. We've been together for a year and a half and he just said he needs to be himself for a while and not have the stress of wanting to give me more than he can. I'm heart broken and devastated. I want him back desperately and what makes it worse is that we work together and I'm not giving up my job. I love him and I know he still loves me...this is tearing me apart...any advice?
 
All of our notes in school (undergrad and grad) were available on blackboard...which to me is (was) too much hand holding and coddling; but I digress. I'm also one of those millennial elitist that thinks anyone born after 1985 is babied in general.
Haha I'm with you! I'm back in school now and all my teachers post everything on blackboard. And my first time in college was 1991, so you know I'm flabbergasted by the amount of hand holding and coddling. One of my teachers even does all the in class problems on excel on the overhead and then posts THAT on blackboard after class so we really don't have to write anything down. Such babies! :p

Having the PowerPoints available is great, but I do have a few teachers that want us to print them and won't allow tablets or laptops in class. I don't really want to print a 90 slide pp out so I have to suffer. :rolleyes:

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My boyfriend just randomly called me and broke up with me. We've been together for a year and a half and he just said he needs to be himself for a while and not have the stress of wanting to give me more than he can. I'm heart broken and devastated. I want him back desperately and what makes it worse is that we work together and I'm not giving up my job. I love him and I know he still loves me...this is tearing me apart...any advice?

I'm single and about to be 40, so boyfriend advice is not my forte. Just wabted to send you a {{{{{{hug}}}}}}} :(


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My boyfriend just randomly called me and broke up with me. We've been together for a year and a half and he just said he needs to be himself for a while and not have the stress of wanting to give me more than he can. I'm heart broken and devastated. I want him back desperately and what makes it worse is that we work together and I'm not giving up my job. I love him and I know he still loves me...this is tearing me apart...any advice?


Oh big hug from California! Although I've been married for almost 20 years, I still remember how much that stuff hurts!! This may not be what you want to hear, but time heals all wounds. And if he is the one for you, then time will reveal that also. But if he's not, better to end it and move on with other relationships. In the end, maybe, just maybe, he's doing you both a big favor.

But more hugs coming your way. xoxo
 
Oh big hug from California! Although I've been married for almost 20 years, I still remember how much that stuff hurts!! This may not be what you want to hear, but time heals all wounds. And if he is the one for you, then time will reveal that also. But if he's not, better to end it and move on with other relationships. In the end, maybe, just maybe, he's doing you both a big favor.

But more hugs coming your way. xoxo
Thank you so much
 
Warning... this is about to be one mega post because I don't want to respond to a bunch separately.
Soo I used Splat recently on my hair... and it was the prettiest red/pink color, I loved it.
The color is NOT coming out, I tried color oops, bleach, laundry detergent, everything. Its not coming out. My hair looks so janky now and I don't know what to do.
I don't want to dye it black because I want to be able to have this pretty color again, but I need it out or covered asap.
Last summer I decided red highlights were an AMAZING idea. I have blonde hair... and they tried bleaching and color lifting them at the salon with no such luck. I had to dye my hair almost a chocolate brown to cover them up. I wish I had better advice but their really isn't a whole lot you can do unless you want your hair to fall out. Good luck! Although this is late and you probably already had your interview.

Ok, last week I was nominated for an Awesome Coach award. If anyone has a second, can you go and vote? You just have to put in name and email and vote, so it's quick! I'm super excited, even though I'm against a ton of other coaches that are from big name places in town, but you never know! I reward in shimmies and I'll be forever grateful. :)

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Voted for you! Good luck and congratulations on the nomination :)

My boyfriend just randomly called me and broke up with me. We've been together for a year and a half and he just said he needs to be himself for a while and not have the stress of wanting to give me more than he can. I'm heart broken and devastated. I want him back desperately and what makes it worse is that we work together and I'm not giving up my job. I love him and I know he still loves me...this is tearing me apart...any advice?

I'm really sorry about your boyfriend. I definitely don't think you should give up your job if it's something you enjoy just because of him. It's going to sting and hurt for awhile but if you keep doing things you enjoy, the pain will become less and less. I hope you guys work everything out and I'm sending you lots of hugs.
 
My boyfriend just randomly called me and broke up with me. We've been together for a year and a half and he just said he needs to be himself for a while and not have the stress of wanting to give me more than he can. I'm heart broken and devastated. I want him back desperately and what makes it worse is that we work together and I'm not giving up my job. I love him and I know he still loves me...this is tearing me apart...any advice?
I'm sorry to hear that, but trust me it does get better. The same situation happened to me, and yes we do still work together and it is awkward but I try and forget about it. Go out with your girl friends and have fun. You're still young! Sending lots of hugs to you :)


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My facebook friends have let me down, so I'm going to try here!
I'm going to London and Paris in the middle of September and I have a few questions about my electronics. I'm only bringing 3 things, my phone, kindle, and hair straightener. I know I need a plug adapter, but I'm so confused about getting a power converter! I'm mainly worried about my straightener, I don't want to fry it! Does anyone have a converter that worked well for them? Will my straightener be okay? I've tried to find out info about the voltage it uses but I haven't found anything (it's a Jilbere Paris, if anyone happens to know.) Should I just buy a straightener in Europe? I don't know! Any advice?!
 
My facebook friends have let me down, so I'm going to try here!
I'm going to London and Paris in the middle of September and I have a few questions about my electronics. I'm only bringing 3 things, my phone, kindle, and hair straightener. I know I need a plug adapter, but I'm so confused about getting a power converter! I'm mainly worried about my straightener, I don't want to fry it! Does anyone have a converter that worked well for them? Will my straightener be okay? I've tried to find out info about the voltage it uses but I haven't found anything (it's a Jilbere Paris, if anyone happens to know.) Should I just buy a straightener in Europe? I don't know! Any advice?!
Not very helpful but Paris and London has two different adapters.

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Next week is so eventful! Sunday is my (super late) graduation party/family birthday party/going away party, Monday is my 18th birthday, and I leave for school Wednesday! I'm gonna be super emotional all week because I'm having issues with having to leave my momma but I'm still really excited.
 
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