- Apr 8, 2011
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I need a bit of advice regarding my old University team. They're competing this weekend so their coach asked me to come up and watch to give my honest opinion about their routine. I stood up at the end of practice and ran them through both good points and weaker points of their routine. Unfortunately some members of the team, mainly freshers who don't know me, have taken it the wrong way and are talking behind my back saying I have no right to do this and that they hope I don't come to watch them compete on Sunday.
I started hearing different things about what was being said today so I text both the current team captain and the coach. The captain felt that I had been criticising her personally because I said that they had a good routine and a good coach and didn't mention her. The coach, who has known me my entire cheerleading career, wasn't happy that the team had been complaining about me and no one had thought to ask the coach why I said what I did. She had asked me to do what I did and was disappointed that a team of adults was not accepting criticism.
I'm now in two minds about going to watch them compete despite travelling a long way already. It's the first team I ever competed with and I want to go watch them and want them to win. But I feel like I won't be welcome on the bus in the morning.
Basically I wanted to rant . But also was wondering if anyone could give me any advice about how to handle this because it's blowing up on facebook and really affecting the way I feel about a group of people I once considered a family.
I started hearing different things about what was being said today so I text both the current team captain and the coach. The captain felt that I had been criticising her personally because I said that they had a good routine and a good coach and didn't mention her. The coach, who has known me my entire cheerleading career, wasn't happy that the team had been complaining about me and no one had thought to ask the coach why I said what I did. She had asked me to do what I did and was disappointed that a team of adults was not accepting criticism.
I'm now in two minds about going to watch them compete despite travelling a long way already. It's the first team I ever competed with and I want to go watch them and want them to win. But I feel like I won't be welcome on the bus in the morning.
Basically I wanted to rant . But also was wondering if anyone could give me any advice about how to handle this because it's blowing up on facebook and really affecting the way I feel about a group of people I once considered a family.