i need some advice on this- i have a friend who had anorexia last year until her parents realized what was happening and put her in treatment. however, lately she has been talking about going back to anorexia because it made her "more focused and she liked how she looked." i want to help her before she goes back to it because she is a really close friend. but i don't know what to say or how to help her deal with what she's feeling. anyone else had to go through something like this? what worked? how can i let her know that anorexia is not the way to go? thanks.