- May 29, 2012
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I don't like the idea of "captains". Granted with a squad as small as mine I don't really need one, but I did away with the title when I took over 4 years ago. Instead, I have a girl lead stretches at each practice starting with Seniors, Juniors and so forth. I do talk to my Senior girls and allow them a bit more "say" in dance music, shoes, etc. Granted I still have the final say but I do take their ideas and wants/needs into careful consideration. Each game a different cheerleader is "head" and picks the floor cheers and crowd pleasers we do for that game. Also, I talk to my Seniors right after tryouts and let them know, this is their final year, make the most of it, don't feel scared to speak up or show newer girls the way but remember "I AM THE COACH and I have final say". Last year I had two seniors who thrived on drama and did not live up to prior Seniors in regards to leadership, very very bad year. This year, 1 senior, and while she doesn't throw it around that she's a Senior, she has commanded the respect from the other girls and they listen to her without her being mean, degrading, etc. She even talked to the team and explained that if she points something out it's something to make a note of and take seriously, that she's not putting anyone down or trying to be better than them but she wants the whole team to have fun, enjoy the year, and look good. So far so good.
I say nix the name and spread the responsibility around. It will create more unity amongst the girls and hopefully keep you from dealing with "boss" drama.
I say nix the name and spread the responsibility around. It will create more unity amongst the girls and hopefully keep you from dealing with "boss" drama.