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[KP Cheer]

How can I be added to the Coaches Only Forum? And how do I find that??

Thanks!

 

[Cheer Dad]

How can I be added to the Coaches Only Forum? And how do I find that??

Thanks!

You will need to contact Weezy for the coaches room. There is also a thread in the newbie section with some info on this. Please read it before you contact her.

 

[tooldforthis]

New here, I have a question if anyone wants to answer. I am a coach, this is my second year coachin junior high cheer, I have coached biddy league for many years as my own daughters progressed up in age.

I have several parents who sit right in front of the girls while they are cheering and "talk" to their daughters. How can I politely put a stop to this. I have a son who plays baseball, football and wrestles. Never would I yell his name until he turned around and said "what mom" while he was on the sidelines.

 

[tooldforthis]

Thanks!

 

[Cheer Dad]

New here, I have a question if anyone wants to answer. I am a coach, this is my second year coachin junior high cheer, I have coached biddy league for many years as my own daughters progressed up in age.

I have several parents who sit right in front of the girls while they are cheering and "talk" to their daughters. How can I politely put a stop to this. I have a son who plays baseball, football and wrestles. Never would I yell his name until he turned around and said "what mom" while he was on the sidelines.

Have you tried asking them to not talk to the girls during practice or during games?

If you have and it doesn't work, if you are brave enough next time one starts to talk to their child tell all the kids to sit down while parent talks. I am guessing the parent will be sufficiently embarrassed they won't do it again.

 

[tooldforthis]

Oh, yes. I have tried. I am going to try one last time (this year) and the next discussion will be to the girls and I will explain, while it's disrespectful to ignore their parents, I want them to concentrate on the game, their cheers and not to respond to their mothers until half time or at end of game. It is silly stuff and one mom isn't very nice to her own daughter. Pointing out if she messed up, if she's not yelling "loud", "stand still so I can take a picture" (during a cheer).

Thank you for your reply.

 

[Cheer Dad]

Oh, yes. I have tried. I am going to try one last time (this year) and the next discussion will be to the girls and I will explain, while it's disrespectful to ignore their parents, I want them to concentrate on the game, their cheers and not to respond to their mothers until half time or at end of game. It is silly stuff and one mom isn't very nice to her own daughter. Pointing out if she messed up, if she's not yelling "loud", "stand still so I can take a picture" (during a cheer).

Thank you for your reply.

You are welcome. I am serious though, at the next meeting tell them if the parents continue to interrupt the kids during a game when they are not on a break tell them all the kids will sit down while the parent talks and then follow through.

 

[PBcoach]

First off, we are thrilled you have chosen to be part of the largest cheerleading board in the world!

This board is great! You can learn alot about cheer (high school, allstar, college, etc), what is going on behind the scenes, find a choreographer, make friends, etc.

We are however VERY protective of our board. On more than one occasion (alot actually), we have had people (either new or old) come on here with the sole purpose of creating drama. We eventually find out who you are and the result is usually a permanent ban on the board.

Please keep in mind this board has a WIDE age range. Keep your posts appropriate and consider the person you may be responding too is a minor. We do have an over 18 section, however that DOES NOT give you carte blanche to be rude and insulting.

And as for rude and insulting, do not make your posts personal. Remember these are young athletes on these teams. Treat others how you yourself would like to be treated, as well as your mother, sister, brother, etc.

Before you can post anywhere in the Cheerleading specific forums you must make 3 posts in here and have been registered for 72 hours (counting from the moment you registered). There will probably be someone willing to come along and answer any question you have, so take advantage of this 3 question requirement here in newbies. Other forums are not as forgiving to newbie questions, so try and ask in here while observing the other forums.

Here are the Top Ten rules for Newbies on Fierce Board:
(Written by our very own, Sharkdad)

1. If you're new, ask newbie questions in the newbie forum first.
You will get friendlier answers in here than the main board.

2. Before you ask a question or post your opinion, see if someone else already has.
Make sure to read the entire thread and use the search bar at the top of the boards. If in doubt, PM someone and they should be happy to help.

3. Ask the right questions in the right sections
Try and keep the music questions in the music section, the allstar questions in the allstar section... etc...

4. Keep posts on topic with the subject.
Don’t go into a post about a competition and ask “how do I improve my BHS?” If it succeeds in derailing the conversation going on it’s called “hijacking” a thread.

5. Have a purpose for your post!
All posts (negative and positive) are welcome, but only if they have a reason behind them. Saying a program/team/routine sucks JUST because is not a reason, and your opinion will instantly be discredited around here

6. Don't make statements about how other people/teams/gyms are thinking or feeling. Think: the only person's opinion I should express is my own.

7. Stick to facts. Try looking it up yourself or at least ask respectfully.
You will learn a lot this way. You should never post anything like “Team X at Gym Y is going to wear polka dot socks next week” if you only read it on Facebook or through someone else’s conversation. It is entirely different to say “I think I heard that. . . .” or finish your statement with “in my opinion, but I don’t know for sure”
 
8. Keep personal accusations, questions, other stuff not relevant to more than one person private.
That's what Private Messages (PMs) are for.

9. Apologize when you get something wrong.
We’re all giving opinions here. Have respect for others and admit if you are wrong.

10. Above all, when in doubt, have respect for others and their opinions.
This will help you decide how to word your posts, and probably how to “agree to disagree” if need be.


Again, WELCOME...to the FIERCEST board ever!

Happy posting!

 

[PBcoach]

Thanks

 

[TNL]

Got it

 

[RTamanda]

Got it!

 

[Cheer Queen]

Thanks

 

[Cheer Queen]

Ok

 

[Melissachriswell611]

Got it
Thank You!

 

[Amkeener]

Great info. Thanks