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Not Natalee Hollaway?

I'm her age and that did it for me.


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Natalee Hollaway is the reason I'll never be allowed to go to the Caribbean without family. My dad read her dad's book when I was young and still brings it up sometimes. Not complaining, I wouldn't ever want to go alone, and I'm the most mature of my group of friends and that would make it more scary for me, honestly.
 
I think so. I was reading along and see you had a dislike rating so I clicked on it since I thought "wow, rude!" It was someone who just joined yesterday named bob james, a female no less. :confused:
I received a dislike from her today as well although I have no real idea why.
 
Natalee Hollaway is the reason I'll never be allowed to go to the Caribbean without family. My dad read her dad's book when I was young and still brings it up sometimes. Not complaining, I wouldn't ever want to go alone, and I'm the most mature of my group of friends and that would make it more scary for me, honestly.
I remember hearing a story some years ago about a girl who went to Rome with Latin students from her high school (it was a language trip) and the school forgot her in Rome and her parents freaked out. I think they brought her back a few weeks later.

While I feel bad for Natalee and her family, LBH what she did was incredibly foolish. This is one of the reasons I have no problem being labeled as the "boring one". I prioritize my safety above everything. It's so eerie that, to this day, she hasn't been found.

Love the turn this thread has taken! That Cheersport story scared the heck out of me.
 
I'm actually old enough to remember plane high jacking happening in the 1970's and 1980's. I knew someone who was headed for a vacation and their plane was high jacked to Cuba.
I am extremely fearful of my daughter being in crowded public places. The Friday night of Cheersport our plane landed late and I was rushing to get her to warmups however we couldn't find her team so I ended up handing her off to someone with a Cheersport shirt and a badge who said he would take her back and find the team. I walked around to B for the performance and got a call from a strange number and it was my daughter saying she was borrowing a security guards phone as hers had died and that the Cheersport employee had taken her to the large warm up area and left her but her team wasn't there so the security guard was walking her down a long hall but he couldn't find the team either. She said she was scared because there weren't any other people where she was and she wasn't sure where she was....and then the call cut out. I immediately tried to call the number back and there was no answer so I started texting the number but there was no response. I asked the closest security guard if he had a way of finding out who my daughter was with and where she was and he suggested I call 911 if she was missing. I texted the coaches but she wasn't with them and the team either. At this point it had been about 40 minutes since I initially handed her off to the Cheersport employee at hall C and I'm in B where the performance will take place and I'm frantic. I saw some other moms and started asking them if they had seen her anywhere but none had. At this point I finally get a message back from the number she had called from and I had texted stating that "they gave her to her father". Of course her father wasn't there so I was just hitting send on my phone to call 911 when one of my cheer mom friends walked up and said they found her walking through B looking for the team and showed her to the backstage warm up in B. At the same time I get a text from the coach saying that she is with them finally . Turns out that for the Friday night she should have been in B the whole time and evidently the Cheersport employee didn't realize that the teams performing Friday night were in B and not in the C hall warm up area.
That 50 minutes was the most frightened I've ever been in my entire life.


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You handled that better than I would have. So glad it worked out. That's the stuff where grey hair comes from.
 
Leave this thread for a couple of days, come back and there are discussions about hijacking, the plot of Taken, and serial killers.
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I'll add my teenage travel story though. When I was 13 I was staying in Italy and the host daughter and her friends took a few of us out for the evening. My mom texted me from the US at about 2am asking how I was, and got the response "I'm at a dive bar called the Jolly Roger!" She was surprisingly calm.

I traveled alone to Europe quite a bit when I was a child to visit my family. CP (7) has taken the 3 hour flight by herself to visit her grandparents. I walk her to gate and stay until the plane takes off. Her grandmother goes to the gate and meets her as she is getting of the plane. She even rode the train in Austria without an adult (with older cousins) to their house. But it is very common for children to travel by train by themselves there. Her cousins have been doing it since they started school. Honestly, I trust her more now to travel by herself than I will when she is in middle and high school. In elementary school, I always went directly where I was supposed to go. In middle and high school, I usually took the scenic route and was a big risk taker.

My daughter has epilepsy but it is controlled by medication. I have not done so yet, but if I absolutely needed to I would let her travel to a competition with another family I trust by plane or car now. I think my feelings will change once she is a teenager.
 
Friend from Nebraska looked at me like I had four heads when I said "yeah the soccer team won states my senior year." I think it's more of a midwestern/south thing.
Cheer in NY does not have States yet but we think that is where it is leading since it just officially became a sport as of the November season. All our other sports have States as their final goal - our boys soccer team actually won States this year, and the girls basketball team is heading there now. With the exception of cheer and dance, no other teams travel outside of NYS.
 
I would never, ever send my child off on a plane without me. Ever.


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I have, twice so far, and would have no problem doing it again. Both times a short flight to visit her cheer friend :) in Boston. I was able to walk her to the gate both times and meet her when she landed back in NY. I told the gate attendants she was a minor but she was not flying as an unaccompanied minor (which was an additional $200 expense and not needed). Her friend in Boston was not allowed to bring her to the gate as they were told that something along the lines of Boston obviously having more reason for increased security than NY....:confused:...but cp was fine with that. Her friend has visited us as well.

Cp is going to Worlds with her team on Thursday after school and flying home Tuesday morning. I am flying down Friday morning and coming home Monday.

Definitely to each their own!
 
Yes that doesn't help either! When I graduated high school (1985 ugh) the ultimate gift many friends received was a flight to Europe, a Eurail pass, and spending money to "backpack" around Europe. I didn't get to go because I was lucky that my family could even afford college. I'd like to think I would send my daughter on something similar if she wanted it but I would be terrified the whole time.
My oldest (17 1/2 ) went on a community service aka teen tour with some social conscience trip to South Africa last summer between junior and senior years. They flew there in a group but since she was on the shorter version of the trip, she and maybe 3-4 other kids her age flew home alone after being brought to the airport by the trip leaders. She also just went on her HS senior trip to France and England this past February; they had alot of down time where they did things in small groups on their own. I think it is a phenomenal experience but the kids need to learn before they go to be aware of things like keeping their $, passports and phones close on them. We did not have a huge amount of phone contact on either trip but were able to text via Viber whenever they had wifi which was fantastic.
 
I feel like I've been independent since I was 16 to be honest. Got a car for my 16th birthday and ever since have been driving back and forth between MI and IN (parents live in dif states 2 hours away), driving myself to comps alone (few hours- to Toledo, Indy, Chicago) and I'm doing a gap year in Costa Rica this upcoming year where I'll be flying alone to and from several times.
 
When I was 16/17 I want to visit my friends two states away. My parents put me on a greyhound bus from Pittsburgh to NW Indiana. This was way before cell phones. There was a stop over in Cleveland where for some reason someone thought I was selling drugs and wouldn't stop harassing me because I wouldn't sell them to him. Then a greyhound employee took my Walkman (lol before iPods, too) and went out the back and got on an empty bus. I was stupid enough to follow him onto the bus all the way to the back, which didn't go well, but I got my Walkman back. But in the meantime I missed my connecting bus and had to wait another 4 hours for the next one. The next bus didn't actually have the same destination stop as the one I was supposed to be on and it dropped me off in Gary at a regular old bus stop. Gary is not the nicest area to leave a small blonde teenaged girl by herself. The entire time I was never sacred. Some guys did pick on me on the bus I boarded to get me closer to where I was supposed to be. I ended up in a hotel in Michigan city where the front desk was nice enough to let me use their phone. My friend's mom was able to pick me up. It was quite the experience.
 
While I feel bad for Natalee and her family, LBH what she did was incredibly foolish. This is one of the reasons I have no problem being labeled as the "boring one". I prioritize my safety above everything. It's so eerie that, to this day, she hasn't been found.

Love the turn this thread has taken! That Cheersport story scared the heck out of me.
This is true, but the world hasn't always had reason to be as paranoid as they are now. It's kinda like how airport security was before and after 9/11. It wasn't taken as seriously because nobody thought it would happen, until it did. Cases like Natalee Holloway's are the reason we are cautious now, but back then I'm sure it was different.
That Cheersport story was horrifying though... I stayed scared most of the time in cabs, as before Atlanta I hadn't ridden in many. At one point one of the cab drivers was so shady I actually texted my boyfriend this super detailed physical description of him and his taxi in case he killed us. [emoji28]
 
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