Awkward Friendships

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know that they both like me. It's so awkward...any advice!?!?!Wait, there are two straight guys on your cheer team? I jest, I jest.
This is life, unfortunately. When people spend a lot of time togther in an activity, quite often feelings develop and may only be one sided. The Boy #1 put himself out there by asking you out, and even though you didn't tell him you did not like him, you still in a way rejected him by not going out with him now. And you did nothing wrong - teenage boys are fragile emotional beings despite many of their actions that would make you think otherwise - you can't feel responsible for this. Plus if Boy #2 likes you as well and they are best friends, they probably do know the other one likes you.
You may just have to deal with the awkwardness for a while and in the meantime hang out with the girlies until it passes. Your friendship with Boy #1 may not go back to where it was but hopefully you can get to a place where a level of comfort returns. And when you are ready to date, you might want to find someone who is not a teammate.

I am agree with cheerbank:cheering:
 
I'm at a very small gym and my team is all-girl, so I don't really have guys on my team to worry about. Just consider the consequences. In case of a breakup, it's not just the the two of you getting affected, it's eighteen other boys and girls. And imagine a stunt group divided. Boy that would be thousands of dollars in injuries.
 
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