- Jan 5, 2011
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I have to disagree with that a little. I think with the attitudes teens and pre-teens can get, telling them their not going to win will only make it worse. I think you're right in the part that they won't care as much, but I think at that age that equals not trying at all. When your older if the coaches don't believe in you then its easy for a team to just not even try and become really negative about everything.
Good point. I have a 16-year-old as well, and you're definitely right--this would definitely make her not even try. It just would be accompanied by eye-rolling instead of a sad face.