- Dec 29, 2010
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As I tell my kids - not everyone will like you. Some people won't want to play with you, or hang out with you, or be your friend. And that's ok, because I'm sure there are people you feel the same way about. Part of life is navigating through interpersonal relationships with people that you may or may not always get along with.
I think message boards like these are much the same - you will encounter people that you don't necessarily agree with or even like very much, and it's your choice whether you want to engage with that person or not. There's an old saying about "not feeding the trolls", and it applies here as well - there are some people that post on message boards just to get a rise out of others.
Now does some trolling morph into a form of cyberbullying? Sure. And at that point, I think appropriate steps need to be taken. One thing that I think we can do (especially the adults in the room) is make sure we raise the level of discourse on the board. I think it's ok to challenge someone or have disagreements with them, as long as said disagreements remain civil. It's up to us to help identify when things are going off the rails and steer threads back to productive discourse.
I think message boards like these are much the same - you will encounter people that you don't necessarily agree with or even like very much, and it's your choice whether you want to engage with that person or not. There's an old saying about "not feeding the trolls", and it applies here as well - there are some people that post on message boards just to get a rise out of others.
Now does some trolling morph into a form of cyberbullying? Sure. And at that point, I think appropriate steps need to be taken. One thing that I think we can do (especially the adults in the room) is make sure we raise the level of discourse on the board. I think it's ok to challenge someone or have disagreements with them, as long as said disagreements remain civil. It's up to us to help identify when things are going off the rails and steer threads back to productive discourse.