- Jun 6, 2013
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Am I being a difficult Cheer Mom? While celebrating January birthdays at our gym last night, in what I thought was just a casual, not serious, conversation my CP’s coach stated she was so excited that CP would be 10 years old in August and she could cross-over and put her on their Senior Level 3 team. I replied that I think she’s too young and joked that it’s best if we just keep her on the Junior team she’s on because she’s so small and people already say she looks like she should be on Mini’s. The coach looked at me like I had grown horns and said “I never thought YOU would be one of those Mom’s that questioned our decisions as coaches” and walked away!
Suffice to say, I stood there shocked and embarrassed because I am the last person to get involved in Cheer Mama drama and have never questioned placements etc. I DO think my CP is too young and needs to mature a little more before being with the older girls. I really didn’t think I was questioning their coaching, I was simply a Mom making an observation about her daughter.
I don’t know if I should say something now and explain that I wasn’t questioning their decisions, or if I should just let it go until try-outs in May and sit-down with them and explain my point of view before placements for next year.
Suffice to say, I stood there shocked and embarrassed because I am the last person to get involved in Cheer Mama drama and have never questioned placements etc. I DO think my CP is too young and needs to mature a little more before being with the older girls. I really didn’t think I was questioning their coaching, I was simply a Mom making an observation about her daughter.
I don’t know if I should say something now and explain that I wasn’t questioning their decisions, or if I should just let it go until try-outs in May and sit-down with them and explain my point of view before placements for next year.