It really is a small world. 1 month ago today I lost my father to cancer and depression. He was terminally ill and committed suicide. I cannot express the sympathy and compassion I feel for a fellow cheerleader who is undoubtingly doing one of the hardest things she will ever have to do. The one thing that helped me a lot was getting back to comp a week later, and the gym, and being with my cheer family. Give her a shoulder(s) to lean on, and I'll be sending my prayers her way