- Mar 28, 2014
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So I posted this on 18+ but I need some advice
So had a cheer competition on sunday and it while my team did the best routine and paces 2nd I didn't have the best day. I am ashamed to say I had a meltdown but i tried to keep it as private as possible but one of my coaches told me team which I wasnt best pleased about. One of the things I was annoyed about is I was the only one not in a uniform as apparently they couldn't find an old one as no one has a new uniform yet. I was upset because its not nice to stand out for the wrong reasons and ym coach went "but the boys wear black" they are no boys on the senior team I am on and I am not a boy!! another one was its only a small comp so it doesnt matter.
I was stressed enough with other stuff and I am really not enjoying cheer any more as I am not challenged I have been given the option to leave now before the end of season but don't want to let my team down and I really don't know what to do
Also I am trying to be a better athlete but I am bored and I am sick of paying my fees on time when lots are not
I just don't know what to do till the end of season after that I am trying out else where
So had a cheer competition on sunday and it while my team did the best routine and paces 2nd I didn't have the best day. I am ashamed to say I had a meltdown but i tried to keep it as private as possible but one of my coaches told me team which I wasnt best pleased about. One of the things I was annoyed about is I was the only one not in a uniform as apparently they couldn't find an old one as no one has a new uniform yet. I was upset because its not nice to stand out for the wrong reasons and ym coach went "but the boys wear black" they are no boys on the senior team I am on and I am not a boy!! another one was its only a small comp so it doesnt matter.
I was stressed enough with other stuff and I am really not enjoying cheer any more as I am not challenged I have been given the option to leave now before the end of season but don't want to let my team down and I really don't know what to do
Also I am trying to be a better athlete but I am bored and I am sick of paying my fees on time when lots are not
I just don't know what to do till the end of season after that I am trying out else where