- Feb 20, 2011
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This thread is also in the High School section, I just wanted more people to see it.
Im at a new high school this year and I joined the cheer team. My coach is very old fashioned and favors 2 of our 3 captains.
These 2 captains get away with anything they want. They can come to practice late and pretty much do whatever. They cheat on conditioning, bail out of stunts, one of them flies when she very clearly should not, and they are ALWAYS the front of formations. every. single. time.
Ive cheered for an allstar gym for 8 years, and these girls haven't. Ive just had more experience than them, and at the risk of sounding high and mighty, have been performing for much longer at a much higher level.
For some reason, these two girls are unbelievably rude to me. Its always passive aggressive, little digs and comments that are almost always said in front of the coach. The comments are always in regards to how much I obsess over cheerleading, or something Ive said during that days/the day before's practice.
Theyve made me completely hate a sport I adore. I cant go to my coach about this because she favors them. Im at a loss for what to do, and I dont want to quit in the middle of the season because two bratty girls didnt like me.
Help ):
We live in a world where if you don't speak up, then you won't be heard. Further, if you don't feel strongly enough about something to speak up- then you don't deserve to be heard. Not trying to be harsh, but as a coach, I think its important for athletes to be able to approach their coach like an adult. Try not to sound like a know-it-all, and I wouldn't go in and make it sounding like an attack on the other two girls. She obviously likes them a lot, and it may sound like jealousy to her. Bring up your concerns in a way that is productive.