I agree with what has been said. Coming off that team will probably be a good thing, though she may not feel that way at first. If she's bonded with that team, there's no reason why that bond should break just because she's not there anymore. There have been several times I've allowed kids who were previously on a team to accompany us in warmup, stand with me in front of the stage etc. She should ask the coach if this is something they'd be ok with.