p.o.k.
Cheer Parent
- Dec 14, 2009
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Sorry, I firmly disagree. For kids activities/sports where there can be a lot of pressure, things become not fun. Wether it is parent pressure, wether it is coach pressure, etc. Think about how many talented gymnasts are in the country and they just can't do it anymore b/c it is no longer fun. Think about how many guys may be awesome football players or baseball players but the dad's push and the son shuts down, think about the parent who strives for the best grades in the world and their kid rebels, think about the school basketball team that is the best in the state and even though the coach is awesome, it's a tough coach, the practice and the time given and the extra conditioning, the pressure to have to win, it is not fun anymore.
Not all kids are built the same and not every level 5 all-star cheerleader will find it fun after years and years and years. Have you ever noticed how few actual 12th graders there are in any of your programs in comparison to younger levels... why b/c it is not fun for some anymore, it is not worth spending the $$ if your kid is feeling pressure.
I don't agree w/ the rule at all, full squad is full squad not 75% and they should not be scored as full squad PERIOD
That is the job of the parents to know when it is time to leave a sport/activity or not. If it is not fun or the kid is not driven anymore you leave it and move on. Are there delusional driven parents out there with no concern to their child's happiness because it is be best at all cost, of course. What I was trying to say is many kids are driven to the be the best or most accomplished. Other kids are just happy to participate and that is great too. There are probably inherent differences in both these type of kids. Is there a reason for this of course - gene pool, environment, or a combo of both - probably. We are not going to solve anybody's personal problems with a rule that strives to make average = to excellent. Reward without accomplishmnet. I just hate to see potential being wasted. Yeah a great flyer or base on a level 5 without the tumbling in many cases may be necessary to round out a team. Should that give them an ou not to try and advance in their lessor skills - I say no. You will see kids get aggravated that those kids that are rewarded without becoming well rounded. It will not give a reason for the "specialist" to gain advanced tumbling skills. Admit it there are people as long as they can get away with it that will be the case. They even may be viewed as a prima donna.