MissCongeniality
Cheer Parent
- Dec 14, 2009
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Hypothetically speaking...As a parent I'm very worried about the direction our society has taken. My child is priority and loyalty involves a lot of definitions and situations. My issues stem from commitment. When you join a team you have made a commitment and it should be honored until the season is over. What an athlete and their parent choose to do after that is not of my concern, HOWEVER, I do believe that when that decision is based solely on winning and losing or the fact they think they are better is not always a valid and true reason. Now I'm not saying that this is NEVER a valid reason. I have seen some very poor programs on many levels that yes I would have left and I had stated previously that my child is a level 5 tumbler at the age of 9 and is on her 3rd season on a level 3 team because we only have senior level 4&5. Not enough younger athletes with those skills to form a team and the only gym to have these teams is 2 hours away. We stay because 1 she has been able to gain those skills at her gym so she's not being held back. 2 she loves her team and her coaches. They are family and she competes with confidence because she's consistent in her skills. I see too many kids that don't perfect a skill before trying to progress. The parents don't understand there is a progression that should be followed for success and when anyone tries to push that progression they think their child is being held back or stifled. I see parents get mad because their child is struggling in their pass or in a stunt and the coaches make a change but the parent doesn't see that change as what's best for the team to win and maybe give the child a chance to relax and work on the skill without the stress and pressure of doing it in competition. This world has turned into selfish and i want it now mentality and raising our kids this way is very dangerous. I wish parents would take a step back, curb the emotions and think about all aspects of the sport and what's really going on before making a decision.
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What if your child was 12 and your beloved gym suddenly could field nothing higher than a struggling (and by that I mean only about half the team has true level 4 skills) level 4 team? What would you do then?