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@12mowerd @TinyBlondie15

The conversation was kind of like :
Her - "my grandmother is ill"
Friend 1 - "o gosh, i'll pray for you"
Friend 2 - "me too"
Me - "my thoughts are with you and your family"
Her - "are you not going to pray too?"
Me - "No, I can't. But I'm thinking of you"

You guys are right, I think I needed to make it clearer that its because I don't have a God not because I didn't want to pray for her. She knows that I am not religious but maybe with the high emotions she forgot/didn't think it through. I just assumed she would know that was the reason.
It wasn't until after that I realised it might have come across as insensitive so I didn't think to explain.
Well I think it's perfectly acceptable. I think it's weird that she even asked you that? Idk I would have accepted your thoughts not asked why you weren't praying that seems silly. I'd go back and explain to her that you're not religious or maybe wsit for a better time later down the road when she is over the initial shock of her gram being sick.

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I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you're doing ok. :)
 
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@12mowerd @TinyBlondie15

The conversation was kind of like :
Her - "my grandmother is ill"
Friend 1 - "o gosh, i'll pray for you"
Friend 2 - "me too"
Me - "my thoughts are with you and your family"
Her - "are you not going to pray too?"
Me - "No, I can't. But I'm thinking of you"

You guys are right, I think I needed to make it clearer that its because I don't have a God not because I didn't want to pray for her. She knows that I am not religious but maybe with the high emotions she forgot/didn't think it through. I just assumed she would know that was the reason.
It wasn't until after that I realised it might have come across as insensitive so I didn't think to explain.

Ehh thats always a weird situation. I usually just say "my thoughts are with you" since I don't really pray and I was brought up in a household where religion was not practiced. I think it was odd of her to ask "are you not going to pray, too?" Puts both of you in an awkward situation... I think what you said was fine - it was an appropriate response for the situation. Hopefully you're friend will understand your side of it after her emotions have settled down. Its easy to take things the wrong way when you're like that.
 
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