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Stop whining about it on a message board and have the guts to ask the head coach for a meeting involving the three of you and your parents. Then, leave the emotional garbage ("my whole team hates me." COME ON, in your message you said at least three times that your friend is the one telling you what's being said) out of the conversation. Speak without prejudiced assumptions about how you have PERCEIVED these events. Don't make accusations, explain how you feel things are going, and see what happens.
okay i cheer for my high school and its my senior year, this is my third year. We started practice at the end of may and we have practice for 3 hours twice a week. Im just going tio skip through it but i think my coach has issues towards me and is bullying me. Keep in mind i have a job but i still make sure to make it to every event. okay so
1) we have a cheer fb and i liked a post of a cheer parent (yes a cheer parent) who simply commented bc she wanted to let the coaches know that her daughter had some events coming up. and i shouldnt have to explain why i liked it but i did because i agreed also that i had things coming up. At practice all the girls are gossiping about me liking the post and my coach (assistant coach is the one im having problems with) comes up and threatens my spot on the team for liking that post
2) i explained my reasoning very nicely but she still threatened my spot, then i asked a girl did she mention it to the whole team and she said no she only told 2 girls beforehand. RED FLAG, i feel its not her buisness as a coach to tell my buisness to other TEAMMATES, she didnt even tell the head coach about it
3) i couldnt attend a performance due to me taking a test and at that performance i was told during the perfomances she was gossiping with other teammates about me and why am i even on varsity if im not dedicated again why is she gossiping with teammates.
4) it was last week during practice we ran through a dance that was performed at the performance, mind you i wasnt there, i was already feeling unconfident i wasnt there but i didnt want to try. so that assistant coach was having a talk with another girl 15 feet away and during the dance she yells stop the music, and then she begins to call ONLY me out in an extremely rude manner, and begins humiliating me. and then we do it again and she stops the music screaming at me to sit out.. i felt really embarrased and it wasnt fair bc i was completely shaken up the 2nd time which caused me to mess up but i wasnt the only one.
5) at todays practice i get there and my friend tells me shes trying to put you on probation. AND ONCE AGAIN the whole team is talking about it. i asked my friend who said it and they told me it was the girl who she told my buisness too before. so i dont know why this coach keeps telling other teammates she wants to put me on probation but she wont tell me or my other coach.
6)mind you she wants me on probabtion for attitude but ive never ever ever had an attitude with her, only once when she called me out during that dance i turned to my other coach and said did i really mess up cause she was watching,and she even said no.
7) today at practice (im not gonna give the whole story unless you guys want more info) but i was sticking up for my teammates who were quiet and some girl started bullying me, cussing at me and being rude even trying to fight me (lol) the head coach was with us today and even she knows it wasnt my fault but i know they will tell my other coach and flip it like its my fault.
Its honestly not fair that im being bullied by my team and coach, everyong hates me now , but im not going to quit. im just not going to go to next practice, anyone have any advice about my evil coach and how to report her. She even goes out to lunch with that girl which is inappropriate, she still thinks shes in high school. OH what should i do about majority of the girls hating me and ganging up on me?
As a former coach, I bolded what was off putting to me in your original statement. You clearly state you are skipping practice. You clearly state you weren't trying when you went to practice.okay i cheer for my high school and its my senior year, this is my third year. We started practice at the end of may and we have practice for 3 hours twice a week. Im just going tio skip through it but i think my coach has issues towards me and is bullying me. Keep in mind i have a job but i still make sure to make it to every event. okay so
1) we have a cheer fb and i liked a post of a cheer parent (yes a cheer parent) who simply commented bc she wanted to let the coaches know that her daughter had some events coming up. and i shouldnt have to explain why i liked it but i did because i agreed also that i had things coming up. At practice all the girls are gossiping about me liking the post and my coach (assistant coach is the one im having problems with) comes up and threatens my spot on the team for liking that post
2) i explained my reasoning very nicely but she still threatened my spot, then i asked a girl did she mention it to the whole team and she said no she only told 2 girls beforehand. RED FLAG, i feel its not her buisness as a coach to tell my buisness to other TEAMMATES, she didnt even tell the head coach about it
3) i couldnt attend a performance due to me taking a test and at that performance i was told during the perfomances she was gossiping with other teammates about me and why am i even on varsity if im not dedicated again why is she gossiping with teammates.
4) it was last week during practice we ran through a dance that was performed at the performance, mind you i wasnt there, i was already feeling unconfident i wasnt there but i didnt want to try. so that assistant coach was having a talk with another girl 15 feet away and during the dance she yells stop the music, and then she begins to call ONLY me out in an extremely rude manner, and begins humiliating me. and then we do it again and she stops the music screaming at me to sit out.. i felt really embarrased and it wasnt fair bc i was completely shaken up the 2nd time which caused me to mess up but i wasnt the only one.
5) at todays practice i get there and my friend tells me shes trying to put you on probation. AND ONCE AGAIN the whole team is talking about it. i asked my friend who said it and they told me it was the girl who she told my buisness too before. so i dont know why this coach keeps telling other teammates she wants to put me on probation but she wont tell me or my other coach.
6)mind you she wants me on probabtion for attitude but ive never ever ever had an attitude with her, only once when she called me out during that dance i turned to my other coach and said did i really mess up cause she was watching,and she even said no.
7) today at practice (im not gonna give the whole story unless you guys want more info) but i was sticking up for my teammates who were quiet and some girl started bullying me, cussing at me and being rude even trying to fight me (lol) the head coach was with us today and even she knows it wasnt my fault but i know they will tell my other coach and flip it like its my fault.
Its honestly not fair that im being bullied by my team and coach, everyong hates me now , but im not going to quit. im just not going to go to next practice, anyone have any advice about my evil coach and how to report her. She even goes out to lunch with that girl which is inappropriate, she still thinks shes in high school. OH what should i do about majority of the girls hating me and ganging up on me?
I'm not saying other parts of the OP aren't problems, but I do think that the first part you bolded was her saying she was going to skip through (i.e. Summarize and not give every detail) the story so we get the gist of it, not that she was skipping through practice. At least that's how it reads to me.As a former coach, I bolded what was off putting to me in your original statement. You clearly state you are skipping practice. You clearly state you weren't trying when you went to practice.
I know that this may be frustrating to hear, but from this post, I can see why your coach may be upset with you. As a senior, she may want to see you step up on your squad and take a leadership position, but instead she is seeing you skip practices. What example does that set for the younger girls on your team?
Can you ever be nice or do you just get off on being provocative?